
I’m not surprised by Rev. Rick Warren’s comparison of gay men and lesbians getting married to marriages between brothers and sisters (yes, that would be incest) and with pedophilia (yes, that would be sex with children). After all, haven’t we heard all this before and much more?
I’m not surprised that Rev. Warren believes we can be cured of being gay. After all, the miracle of medical science seeks to cure all that ails us.
I’m not surprised by Rev. Warren saying, “I want to have sex with every attractive woman I meet, but I have to control my impulses” or something to that effect in a TV interview. Mr. Warren said this with a straight face (pun intended). The interviewer worked hard to control her facial expressions, but a smirk came through.
Rev. Warren believes that being attracted to people of the same sex is an impulse that is a kin to addiction, and a symptom of a weak moral character. It’s not surprising that he echoes the failed “just say no” slogans as a response to being gay and lesbian. So, this is how gayness can be cured; just say no. Oh, by the way, that didn’t work for drug use and take a look at the stats for abstinence.
I’m not surprised that Saddleback Church does not welcome “homosexuals” who have friendships, children, families, and partners that accept them for who they are. In other words, “homosexuals” who take their own right to self-determination seriously, who see discrimination for being gay or lesbian as a violation of human rights, and who see no reason to be heterosexual are not welcome to Rev. Warren’s church.
I’m not surprised that Rev. Warren is not “inclusive.”
Nope. None of that surprises me. Hey, I ain’t 50 for nothing.
I’m not even surprised that gay men and lesbians are still the only group of humans in the United States that can be thrown under the bus for political “pragmatism” and that the only ones who care are gay men and lesbians and some progressive allies.
I wish I could say that I am surprised by President-Elect Barack Obama’s choice of this pastor to speak at this historic inauguration; to give the inaugural invocation. But I remember what candidate Obama clearly stated: Marriage is between a man and a woman. Not that I want to get married, but the fact that this fundamental right that is available to everyone except gay men and lesbians is one which President Obama will continue to deny is not that far away from the exclusionary impulses of Rev. Warren.
If you substitute “gay men and lesbians” or “homosexuals,” as these have been used by Rev. Warren and President-Elect Obama, with any other group in society today, how would what they are saying sound to you? Why is it that gay men and lesbians can still be thrown under the bus and we are expected to accept this as a form of being included?
Um, nice of you to include me, darling, but could you let me out from under this tire, I'd like to get on the bus.

Pragmatic inclusion? Let’s define that, shall we?
Here is an interesting perspective from Frank Rich of the New York Times:
"When Obama defends Warren’s words by calling them an example of the “wide range of viewpoints” in a “diverse and noisy and opinionated” America, he is being too cute by half. He knows full well that a “viewpoint” defaming any minority group by linking it to sexual crimes like pedophilia is unacceptable.
It is even more toxic in a year when that group has been marginalized and stripped of its rights by ballot initiatives fomenting precisely such fears. “You’ve got to give them hope” was the refrain of the pioneering 1970s gay politician Harvey Milk, so stunningly brought back to life by Sean Penn on screen this winter. Milk reminds us that hope has to mean action, not just words."
For the complete Op-Ed by Frank Rich titled, "You're Likable Enough, Gay People," published 26 December,
click here.